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Dementia Time-Shifting: When the Past Becomes the Present

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A woman places her hand on her mother’s shoulder, comforting her as she experiences dementia time-shifting.

Dementia time-shifting can feel confusing, but it’s a chance to understand a loved one’s world and create meaningful moments together.

The way a person with dementia experiences the world is not always grounded in our current reality. One of the more heart-wrenching yet powerful experiences you may encounter is a phenomenon called dementia time-shifting. This isn’t just failing to remember what day it is; it’s a total immersion in a different period of their life. For example, you might be sitting together at the dining room table, and abruptly, your older loved one believes they are a young adult waiting for their parents to come home. It’s confusing for them and may be equally baffling for you. But understanding time-shifting can help make those moments more manageable—and even meaningful.

What Is Dementia Time-Shifting?

Time-shifting occurs when someone with dementia perceives themselves as living in a different moment from their past. Beyond reminiscing, it’s a profound, genuine belief that they’re currently in that particular period of time. For them, the present moment fades, substituted by intense memories that feel as real as today. They may call out for individuals who passed away years ago or speak about events that took place decades earlier as if they were happening now.

The Best Ways to Cope With Time-Shifting

When time-shifting happens, it’s normal to want to correct the person’s perception, to gently remind them that they’re here, with you, in the present. However, we know that this method often results in confusion, frustration, or even distress. As an alternative, try stepping into their reality. Validate their feelings, understand what they are expressing, and respond with empathy. If they’re anxious about an appointment with their parents, for instance, you might say, “It sounds like you really care about being on time. They must have meant a lot to you.” This reaction can provide comfort without the jarring reminder that their parents aren’t around anymore.

Creating Connection Through Their World

Time-shifting may be a chance to create moments of connection with the individual you love. Make inquiries about the time they are absorbed in, such as, “What is something you’re excited to do when your parents get home?” Questions like this can inspire storytelling that engages them while giving you a richer comprehension of their past. You may hear stories you’ve never heard before or learn things that bring you closer.

Taking Care of Yourself

It is essential to recognize that time-shifting could be emotionally exhausting. Seeing a loved one drift into another time and place can leave you feeling lost. Ensure that you have support, whether from friends, family, or professional resources. Joining a caregiver support group can also provide you with worthwhile tips and camaraderie from other individuals who know what you’re going through. Remember, you do not have to do this alone.

Our Dementia Caregivers Can Help

Though we understand how hard it may be, time-shifting moments offer a window into the life experiences that have shaped the person you love. And we are here to assist you every step of the way in taking care of a person you love with dementia. Our professional caregivers are fully trained and experienced in the unique nuances of dementia and are available to assist in Fort Lauderdale, Parkland, Weston, and throughout Broward County. Reach out to us at 954-486-6440 for a complimentary in-home meeting to find out more.

How to Create Meaningful Holiday Traditions for Seniors With Dementia

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An older man and his wife hang a wreath on their front door, showcasing the joy of holiday traditions for seniors with dementia.

Holiday traditions for seniors with dementia involve some careful planning and adaptation.

What could be more nostalgic than the time-honored tradition of pulling out holiday decorations, revisiting the memories they spark, and making each area of the home fun and festive? It’s an activity everyone in the family can participate in. Yet there are some special considerations to keep in mind when someone you love is struggling with the challenges of dementia.

Enjoy decorating and other holiday traditions for seniors with dementia with these tips:

Simplify the Process

When decorating with a loved one who has dementia, simplicity is key. A complex decorating scheme can lead to confusion and frustration, so aim for straightforward tasks that allow for participation without overwhelming them.

Consider focusing on a few specific areas in the home rather than trying to decorate every room. Maybe you choose to adorn just the living room and the front door. Keeping it manageable helps prevent overstimulation.

Select decorations that are easy to handle and don’t require extensive assembly. For instance, opting for pre-lit garlands or simple ornaments can make the process smoother. This way, your loved one can feel involved without the stress of complicated tasks.

Involve Them in Meaningful Traditions

Holidays are steeped in tradition, and involving a loved one with dementia in familiar activities can help spark joy and comfort. Think about the decorations they have loved in the past. Perhaps they used to hang ornaments on the tree with you or bake special cookies together. Recreating these moments, even if simplified, can reignite warm memories.

As you decorate, talk about the significance of each item. Share stories behind certain ornaments or decorations, reinforcing their connection to family history. This makes the process more enjoyable and also allows for bonding over shared memories, even if those memories are fleeting.

Create a Safe and Comfortable Environment

Safety should always be a priority when decorating with a loved one who has dementia. As you bring out decorations, be mindful of potential hazards. Avoid decorations that are sharp, breakable, or could be choking hazards. If using lights or other electrical decorations, ensure that cords are tucked away and don’t pose a tripping risk.

Create a comfortable space where the person can participate in decorating without feeling overwhelmed. Designate a small area where they can help—maybe by sorting ornaments or placing non-breakable decorations on low tables. You can also incorporate sensory elements into the experience. Let them touch the textures of the decorations, smell seasonal scents like pine or cinnamon, and enjoy the vibrant colors of the holiday décor.

Be Patient and Flexible

Patience and flexibility are essential in any activity with someone with dementia. There may be moments of confusion or forgetfulness, and that’s perfectly okay. Instead of feeling frustrated, take a deep breath and remind yourself that the goal is to create a joyful atmosphere, not to achieve perfection.

If the person seems overwhelmed or loses interest, take a break or shift activities. Consider incorporating short bursts of decorating followed by some relaxation time. This way, they can participate at their own pace and stop whenever they become tired.

Celebrate Small Moments of Joy

Pay attention to the little things! Take time to celebrate any small victories, like hanging the first ornament or arranging the table. Engage in conversations about what they enjoy, and don’t hesitate to share your excitement for the season.

Capture these moments with photos. Not only does this create a keepsake to cherish, but it also allows the person to reminisce and feel involved in the holiday spirit long after the decorations are up.

Creating New Traditions Together

The holidays may not look the same when a loved one has dementia, but the new traditions you create together can be just as meaningful. Remember that Responsive Home Care is here to help as well, before, during and after the holidays. Our specialized dementia care team goes above and beyond to make each day brighter for the individuals we serve.

Contact us to find out more about our in-home dementia care in Fort Lauderdale, Deerfield Beach, Parkland, and the surrounding areas in Broward County.

Is Dementia Causing a Loved One to Resist Changing Clothes? Try These Tips!

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An older man considers whether to put on a clean shirt or to resist changing clothes.

If dementia is causing someone you love to resist changing clothes, try these tactics.

It is a typical morning, and you’re helping Dad prepare for the day. You have selected a few options of outfits for him to choose from, but he balks and refuses to put on any of them. In fact, he’s been wearing the same clothes for a couple of days now, in spite of your gentle requests each day to change. Sound familiar? Many family caregivers encounter the daily struggle when dementia causes a loved one to resist changing clothes. The good news is that with a few helpful strategies and a good amount of patience, you can make this process easier. Read more

When Someone With Dementia Is Hiding Things: Tips to Help

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An older man peers into a cabinet with a confused look on his face, a common occurrence when someone with dementia is hiding things.

When someone with dementia is hiding things, you need to determine the root cause and implement these strategies to help.

We’ve all experienced that moment of utter panic when we cannot find our keys or wallet. It’s disorienting and frustrating. Now, picture this happening multiple times every day, coupled with an overwhelming sense of confusion and fear. This scenario is a common part of life for people with dementia. To make things even more unsettling, it could be that someone with dementia is hiding things themselves, usually in places you’re not likely to look.

Why might a person with dementia hide items? There are several key factors that might be at play.

  • Loss of organizational skills: It might become challenging for someone with dementia to understand the purpose of everyday objects or recall where they go. Hiding items can be a misdirected attempt at organization, a way to manage the daunting task of keeping tabs on their environment.
  • Suspicion and paranoia: Dementia often brings about a heightened sense of suspicion and paranoia. Your loved one may become suspicious of those around them, fearing that others might steal their possessions. This increased sense of mistrust can prompt them to hide their belongings in an attempt to protect them.
  • Memory issues and confusion: Hiding items can be a manifestation of the confusion and loss of memory that accompanies dementia. As memory fades, a person with dementia may no longer recall where they put their belongings, leading them to hide items in what seems like a secure spot. This action can give them a sense of security and help reduce their anxiety about losing things.
  • Need for engagement: Rummaging and hiding is often a form of engagement or activity for someone with dementia. As they lose the ability to take part in more complex activities, these simpler actions can provide a feeling of purpose and occupation. These activities can fill their time and trigger a sense of accomplishment.

Understanding the causes of this behavior can help you approach the situation with empathy and patience. Try:

  • Creating a secure and structured environment: Make sure that their living space is organized and free of hazards. Consistency in how furniture and personal items are arranged can minimize confusion and make it easier for them to find the things they need.
  • Providing engaging, meaningful activities: Keep their minds and hands busy with activities that are right for their abilities and interests. Simple tasks like sorting, folding, or working with sensory objects can be both calming and fulfilling.
  • Labeling common hiding spots: Clearly label storage areas, drawers, and cupboards. This can act as a helpful reminder of where things belong and can minimize the likelihood of items being hidden in unusual places.
  • Maintaining a routine: A predictable daily routine can offer a sense of security and reduce anxiety. Regularly scheduled activities, meals, and rest times can help create a structured environment that feels safe and familiar.

We’re also here to partner with you to ease the root causes behind hiding items as well as other challenging effects of dementia. Get in touch with us at (954) 486-6440 for more information on our highly creative and specialized in-home dementia care in Fort Lauderdale, Deerfield Beach, Plantation, and the surrounding areas in Broward County.

Dementia and Conversation Looping: How to Break the Cycle

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A young man smiles as he implements techniques to effectively respond to his father, who is experiencing dementia and conversation looping.

Dementia and conversation looping often go hand in hand, which can lead to frustration without knowing how to effectively respond.

If you have ever played music on vinyl records, you know that the needle does not always track properly. Occasionally, a small piece of debris or dust may cause it to get stuck or skip, leaving you hearing only a few words of the song over and over again until the problem is addressed.

In Alzheimer’s disease and other forms of dementia, memory blips can result in a similar effect described as conversation looping. Typically occurring in mild and moderate stages of the disease, dementia and conversation looping may look like this:

  • You’re having an engaging conversation about your favorite football team’s latest victory.
  • The individual with dementia suddenly changes gears and asks you if you’ve finished your homework.
  • Knowing it is important to step into an alternate reality or timeframe with the person, you respond that all of your homework is finished.
  • You then resume the conversation about the unbelievable touchdown that clinched the win.
  • The other person asks again if you have finished your homework.

What Is the Appropriate Way to Handle Issues With Dementia and Conversation Looping?

It is beneficial to first understand why the behavior is occurring. We all experience repetition to varying degrees. We may forget that we have told someone a particular memory or story and tell them again. We also may repeat a question we have in mind, unsure whether we actually asked the question or simply just thought about it. These types of situations occur when we are not fully focused or paying close enough attention to the environment around us.

In contrast, conversation loops in dementia can happen as frequently as every couple of minutes. Professor of Psychology at Western Washington University Ira E. Hyman, Jr., Ph.D., explains that with cognitive impairment, “…the work of binding the elements of an experience into a personal memory is disrupted.”

It is important to recognize that correcting someone with Alzheimer’s is not a successful tactic. Understanding that, it’s advisable to continue to respond to the person’s repetitive question or story, keeping your reply brief. You can then try changing the topic to something you know is of particular interest to them now or was important to them during their younger years, as long-term memories stay intact considerably longer than more recent ones.

How a Specialized Alzheimer’s Caregiver Can Help

With many challenging behaviors and symptoms to manage, caring for a person with Alzheimer’s on your own can be daunting. Our caregivers are especially trained in effective approaches to managing the challenges experienced in dementia. Let us partner with you to ensure the highest quality care for someone you love.

Whether you are struggling with wandering, sundowning, hallucinations, aggression, or any other complications a family member is experiencing from Alzheimer’s, we can help. Contact us any time at (954) 486-6440 to learn more about our expert dementia care, available throughout Fort Lauderdale, Deerfield Beach, Plantation, and the surrounding areas.

What to Expect in Dementia: The Impact on All 5 Senses

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A woman sits with an older man at a dining table outdoors, trying to figure out what to expect in dementia.

Knowing what to expect in dementia and the changes to each of the five senses will help you make life the best it can be for someone you love.

When we think about what to expect in dementia, the first thing that typically springs to mind is the loss of memory. Cognitive decline is a hallmark effect of Alzheimer’s disease and other forms of dementia, but there are so many other areas of life that are impacted as well. As a matter of fact, each of the five senses can be altered in many ways that are important to understand.

What Sensory Changes Are Typical in Dementia?

Following are some of the changes you might notice in a loved one with dementia:

  • Taste and Smell: These senses are often the first to change. The decline in the ability to taste and smell could lead the person to eat food that has spoiled, drink a cleaning fluid or some other toxic substance, and remain unaware if something is burning on the stove or in the home. Lock cleaning supplies as well as other hazardous materials safely away, check the individual’s food supply routinely to ensure food is fresh, and make sure smoke detectors are operational throughout the home.
  • Hearing: Although the person might be able to hear just fine, auditory processing changes may make it hard to understand what’s being said. It also may cause anxiety when there are loud background noises and distractions in the environment. Speak slowly and clearly, using short, one-thought statements, and use pictures along with other visuals as needed for more effective communication.
  • Vision: The brain’s ability to interpret what the individual is seeing can cause confusion. It may also lead to an elevated likelihood of falling, as patterns on the floor, shadows, and lighting could be recognized incorrectly as three-dimensional objects. Depth perception is oftentimes also impacted. As much as possible, use contrasting colors to lessen these effects.
  • Touch: The individual may lose the ability to detect cold and hot, putting them at an increased risk for burns along with other injuries. Safety-proof the stove, decrease the hot water heater temperature, and ensure the individual is dressed appropriately for the air temperature, both in the home and outdoors.

An in-home caregiver is the perfect addition to the care plan of someone with dementia. Our trained and experienced professionals can reduce safety hazards while improving total wellbeing. We are able to help effectively manage and defuse the many intricate and challenging effects of dementia, including:

  • Wandering
  • Agitation
  • Aggression
  • Confusion
  • Hallucinations
  • Repetitive behaviors
  • Anxiety and fear
  • Restlessness
  • Sundowning
  • And far more

Contact us at 954-486-6440 for a no-cost in-home consultation for more information on our specialized dementia care in Pompano Beach, Coconut Creek, Coral Springs, and also the surrounding areas and how we are able to make life the very best it can be every day for someone you love.

Can You Handle Embarrassing Dementia Behaviors in Public?

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An older woman stands in the grocery store, leaning on her cart with a calm expression on her face.

If you’re not sure how to handle embarrassing dementia behaviors in public, these tips can help.

Dementia is unpredictable, to say the least. It can transform a person’s mood, personality, and behaviors in the blink of an eye. When you’re at home caring for a person with dementia, these changes can be hard enough to manage. But what happens when embarrassing dementia behaviors arise when you are at a grocery store, restaurant, or hair salon?

Simple Tips to Change Cringeworthy to Calm

Fear of a public outburst can make you want to eliminate venturing out at all with someone with Alzheimer’s or another type of dementia. However, being out in the community is very important. It gives someone with dementia a feeling of purpose, eases loneliness and isolation, offers opportunities to socialize, and much more.

Understanding how to cope with an uncomfortable situation before going out is key. These recommendations can help.

  • Keep calm. Your demeanor and attitude are highly contagious to a loved one with dementia. Take a deep breath and give yourself a pep talk before stepping out the door. Remind yourself to remain calm and patient, regardless of what happens.
  • Carry cards. If you are worried about how embarrassing dementia behaviors may impact others around you, create some small business-sized cards that you can discreetly hand out. They can simply state, “Please forgive any impolite actions or outbursts. These are the result of dementia.”
  • Track triggers. Keep a journal to make note of details on difficult behaviors in public and then look for commonalities. You might find, for example, that the individual does well in a small store or restaurant, but becomes distraught when there are large crowds, too much noise, or bright lights. There might be a specific time of day that is more distressing to be out, or physical needs could be an issue, such as hunger, thirst, pain, fatigue, or the need to use the restroom.

How In-Home Care Can Help

Our dementia care experts are available to help manage the effects of the disease, with patience, skill, and creativity. As seasoned experts who are fully trained in a wide range of dementia care needs, we have seen it all! We understand just how to restore calm to somebody who is distressed or agitated, ensuring respect and dignity throughout an outburst.

A few of the many challenging symptoms of dementia we are able to help manage include:

  • Aggression
  • Sundowning
  • Hallucinations and delusions
  • Wandering
  • Anxiety
  • Confusion and disorientation
  • And more

Whether you are looking for just a couple hours of respite care to allow time for you to take a break, overnight support or live-in care to ensure safety and wellbeing while you get much-needed rest, or anything in between, we’re here for you.

Give us a call at 954-486-6440 for more tips and resources, and to learn more about our specialized in-home dementia care in Tamarac, Parkland, Fort Lauderdale, and the surrounding areas.