Discover New Ways to Communicate With Someone With Alzheimer’s

You ask an easy question: “What would you like for lunch today?” But instead of a response, you are met with hesitation, bewilderment, and a long pause. You have probably experienced occasions such as this while being a caregiver for someone with Alzheimer’s, where words seem just out of reach and conversations feel more like challenges than connections. When verbal communication begins to fade, it’s easy to feel helpless. But the truth is, connection doesn’t rely solely on words. There are some incredibly effective nonverbal ways to communicate with someone with Alzheimer’s that will help you stay connected to the person you love.

I’ve seen firsthand how a simple gesture, like holding someone’s hand, can communicate love and reassurance much more powerfully than words ever could. These moments remind us that communication doesn’t stop when words fail; it actually shifts to other forms. Nonverbal communication becomes the bridge which allows us to maintain meaningful connections and guarantee an older loved one with Alzheimer’s feels seen and supported.

Why Nonverbal Communication Is Important

Alzheimer’s makes it challenging for people to find the words they need and sometimes even comprehend what’s being said to them. However, their emotional awareness often is still intact. What this means is they can sense joy, love, frustration, and calmness, even though they can’t articulate these emotions. Nonverbal communication bridges the gap, enabling you to express empathy, reassurance, and understanding without words.

Simple Ways to Communicate Without Words

The following are five nonverbal methods [MS3] to interact with someone with dementia:

• Tone of voice: Even when words aren’t understood, your tone is. Speak softly and warmly, because it can help reduce anxiety and foster a sense of calm.
• Facial expressions: A smile or a calm, reassuring expression speaks volumes. Your face can exhibit emotions that words may may be unable to convey, for example patience, understanding, and kindness.
• Eye contact: Meeting a person’s gaze can be incredibly grounding. For individuals with Alzheimer’s, eye contact conveys that you’re engaged and present. It may help them feel seen and valued, even though their memory struggles to recall you.
• Touch: A warm hand on the shoulder, holding their hand, or a gentle pat on the back can convey comfort and love. Touch can often bypass confusion, reaching right to the heart.
• Body gestures: Open, inviting posture shows you’re accessible. Avoid abrupt movements or crossed arms, which may be regarded as frustration or impatience.

Activities That Encourage Nonverbal Interaction

Engaging in simple, shared activities can enhance nonverbal communication. Try brushing their hair, listening to music, or drawing together – moments that do not require words. It is about being present and creating shared experiences.

As an example, many individuals with Alzheimer’s respond well to music. Singing or playing familiar tunes can spark joy and present a way to connect that feels uplifting and easy.

Be Aware of Their Nonverbal Cues as Well

Communication is a two-way street. Your family member is likely sharing their emotions nonverbally, too. Figure out how to recognize their cues:

• Sounds: Humming, sighing, or other vocalizations can convey feelings when words do not come.
• Facial expressions: A furrowed brow may indicate pain or distress, while a smile can signal happiness.
• Gestures: Pointing or reaching for something may be their way of indicating a need.

So, when you’re striving for the right words, keep in mind that silence isn’t the absence of communication. It’s an opportunity to speak with your eyes, your hands, and your heart. After all, some of the most meaningful connections don’t require words at all.

Want Additional Help and Resources?

At Responsive Home Care, our caregivers are experts in caring for those with Alzheimer’s while supporting those who love them. Get in touch with us at 954-486-6440 to learn more ways to communicate with someone with Alzheimer’s and about our skilled Alzheimer’s care in Fort Lauderdale, Deerfield Beach, Parkland, and throughout Broward County.